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<channel><title><![CDATA[RachelWeepingforHerChildren - **Aine's blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/aines-blog.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[**Aine's blog]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 02:56:18 +0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Elsa's children are not alone!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/elsas-children-are-not-alone.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/elsas-children-are-not-alone.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:48:52 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/elsas-children-are-not-alone.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Sometimes when I write so much about Elsa Newman and her chldren, I feel almost overwhelmed by a simple question: Why would anybody believe me?Today, I am addressing that question by posting a website where many other similar cases appear. Child after child after child after child...stories that will make you cringe or weep or both. These are from the state of California, county by county stories of the unbelievable, which I refer to because they absol [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p  style=" text-align: left; ">Sometimes when I write so much about Elsa Newman and her chldren, I feel almost overwhelmed by a simple question: Why would anybody believe me?<br /><br />Today, I am addressing that question by posting a website where many other similar cases appear. Child after child after child after child...stories that will make you cringe or weep or both. These are from the state of California, county by county stories of the unbelievable, which I refer to because they absolutely must be believed. <br /><br /><A href="http://www.protectiveparents.com/cases.html"><STRONG>http://www.protectiveparents.com/cases.html</STRONG></A><br /><br /></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A NEW SLOGAN FOR AINE AND THE PUGS--IN SEARCH OF JUSTICE FOR ELSA NEWMAN]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/a-new-slogan-for-aine-and-the-pugsin-search-of-justice-for-elsa-newman1.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/a-new-slogan-for-aine-and-the-pugsin-search-of-justice-for-elsa-newman1.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 22:18:30 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/07/a-new-slogan-for-aine-and-the-pugsin-search-of-justice-for-elsa-newman1.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Pray for the dead and fight like hell for the living! Mother Jones [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p  style=" text-align: left; "><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Pray for the dead and fight like hell for the living! Mother Jones</SPAN><br /><br /></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A child's shoes...]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/06/a-childs-shoes.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/06/a-childs-shoes.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 16:29:35 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/06/a-childs-shoes.html</guid><description><![CDATA[This, obviously, is not a picture of the real shoes in question. This sketch is here simply to serve as a visual aid and to attract attention to my subject  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span  style=" z-index: 10; float: left; "><a><img src="/uploads/7/1/4/8/714848/4262275.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border: 1px solid black; z-index: 10;" /></a></span><p  style=" text-align: left; display: block; "><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>This, obviously, is not a picture of the real shoes in question. This sketch is here simply to serve as a visual aid and to attract attention to my subject for the day: a child&rsquo;s shoes and where they were on the night Margery Landry broke into the house of Elsa Newman&rsquo;s estranged husband.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>I&rsquo;m trying, in the interest of complete truth, to dig deeply into this story of the Elsa Newman case. And today, in the process of my search, I learned something new and completely unexpected.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>During Elsa Newman&rsquo;s first trial on the &ldquo;conspiracy to commit murder in the first degree&rdquo; or whatever they called it, Katherine Winfree showed a series of slides. These slides, as I understand it, were intended to provide the jury with views of the bedroom where the then-husband of Elsa Newman was asleep with his youngest son at the time Margery Landry broke into the house. If my informants are correct, the child was nude; the father was nude from the waist down.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>Oh&hellip;well&hellip;the father said the child had had difficulty sleeping and had come and crawled into Dad&rsquo;s bed.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>Not an uncommon occurrence, you say? I agree. Many a child crawls into a parent&rsquo;s bed in the night, whether from difficulty sleeping or to find safety after a nightmare.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>But why was the child naked?</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>Why was his father naked from the waist down?</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>And the thing I just learned today: the child&rsquo;s shoes and socks were on the floor beside the bed. They were visible in one of the slides shown by prosecutor Katherine Winfree in Elsa Newman&rsquo;s first trial. You remember&hellip;the slides of the crime scene.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>So what this father is telling us is that his younger son was unable to sleep that night. Thus the boy got up from his bed&hellip;removed his pajamas&hellip;put on his shoes and socks&hellip;walked to his father&rsquo;s room&hellip;removed those shoes and socks&hellip;and crawled into the bed where his father lay, only partly clothed.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>And you expect me to believe this? Who do you think I am?--a prosecuting attorney?</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>What I cannot understand is why the prosecuting attorneys, having seen those shoes and socks, could possibly have missed their significance.</FONT></SPAN><br /><br /> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"><FONT face=Calibri>Do they simply not care about anything but winning a case?</FONT></SPAN><br /><br />&nbsp;<br /><br /><br /><br /></p><hr  style=" width: 100%; clear: both; visibility: hidden; "></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[ARE THERE ACTUALLY INNOCENT PEOPLE IN PRISON?]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/are-there-actually-innocent-people-in-prison.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/are-there-actually-innocent-people-in-prison.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 18:15:23 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/are-there-actually-innocent-people-in-prison.html</guid><description><![CDATA[I am on the email list for The Innocence Project. This bit of news was in my in-box this morning. &nbsp;  I cannot contact the Innocence Project by e-mail to obtain permission to use this here...but on their message was a link to click to send this message to friends. By this means, then, I send this information on to all my fr [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p  style=" text-align: left; "><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=4><STRONG>I am on the email list for The Innocence Project. This bit of news was in my in-box this morning. </STRONG></FONT>&nbsp; <br /><br /> <STRONG><FONT face=Arial size=4>I cannot contact the Innocence Project by e-mail to obtain permission to use this here...but on their message was a link to click to send this message to friends. By this means, then, I send this information on to all my friends who read this blog. </FONT></STRONG>&nbsp;<br /><br /> &nbsp;<STRONG><FONT face=Arial size=4>I rejoice for Dean Cage. I grieve his years of unjust confinement. </FONT></STRONG>&nbsp; <STRONG><FONT face=Arial size=4>And at the same time--forgive me for indulging myself in an expression of a little heartache--when in the name of G-d will someone be able to do something for Elsa Newman!!!</FONT></STRONG> &nbsp; &nbsp;<br /><br /> &nbsp;<FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=4><STRONG>Dean Cage exonerated in Chicago:</STRONG></FONT><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffff00">After nearly 12 years in Illinois prison</FONT> for a rape he didn&rsquo;t commit, Innocence Project client Dean Cage is finally free today. His mother and other family members picked him up when he was released late last night from a prison three hours outside of Chicago. Back at his mother&rsquo;s Chicago home early this morning, his family threw a party to welcome Cage home.</FONT> <br /><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2>Cage said at a Chicago press conference this afternoon that he is overjoyed to be rejoining his family and that he is committed to working for fair justice in his home state and across the country. He is the <FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffff00">217th person exonerated by DNA testing in the United States, and the 29th in Illinois. Only Texas &mdash; with 31 &mdash; has more DNA exonerations than Illinois.</FONT></FONT>&nbsp;<br /><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2><A href="http://ip.convio.net/site/R?i=PsM2IgRI41aZSPeY3hgWfA.."><STRONG>Read news coverage&nbsp;of Cage&rsquo;s&nbsp;release &mdash; and learn more about his case and others&nbsp;across the country&nbsp;&mdash; on our website.</STRONG></A></FONT><br /><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2>Cage was wrongfully convicted of raping a 15-year-old girl on her way to school during the winter of 1994. The victim&rsquo;s identification of Cage as the attacker was the centerpiece of the state&rsquo;s evidence against him at trial. After the assault, the victim helped police prepare a composite sketch of the perpetrator. A week later, police received a tip that a man matching the sketch worked at a local meat market. Police took the victim to the market, where she identified Cage. Later, at the police station, the victim identified Cage again, this time based on the sound of his voice. </FONT><br /><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2>At today&rsquo;s press conference, Innocence Project Co-Director Peter Neufeld said Illinois has been a national leader for several years in reforming the criminal justice system for capital cases. But the state has fallen short in implementing reforms that can prevent wrongful convictions in non-capital cases, which are the vast majority of convictions &mdash; and wrongful convictions &mdash; in the state. Last summer, the Illinois Legislature created a commission to study non-capital wrongful convictions and develop reforms that can make the criminal justice system more fair and accurate. Nearly a year later, that commission has not been funded and no members have been appointed to it. </FONT><br /><br /><FONT style="COLOR: #000000; FONT-FAMILY: arial" color=#000000 size=2>Neufeld and Cage today called on the Illinois Legislature to move quickly to get the commission started on its critical mission, noting that a similar commission in Illinois led to substantial reforms in capital cases. "If this commission were operating as it&rsquo;s supposed to, it could help prevent a substantial number of wrongful convictions and restore confidence in the state&rsquo;s criminal justice system," Neufeld said. "Perhaps most chilling is the reality that people across Illinois are still being wrongfully convicted based on eyewitness misidentification that could be prevented if the state enacted simple, straightforward reforms that are proven to work."</FONT> <br /></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[WHY DON'T ABUSED CHILDREN DISCLOSE ABUSE??]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/why-dont-abused-children-disclose-abuse.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/why-dont-abused-children-disclose-abuse.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 12:13:44 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/why-dont-abused-children-disclose-abuse.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;Many Americans labor under the false impression that it is a simple thing, indeed, for an abused child to get help. For many children, this is absolutely untrue. Abusers are not simple people. Many are sociopaths--s [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p  style=" text-align: left; "><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Many Americans labor under the false impression that it is a simple thing, indeed, for an abused child to get help. For many children, this is absolutely untrue. Abusers are not simple people. Many are sociopaths--showing a charming, charismatic front to the world, while they inflict sexual...physical...and mental abuse on a child. They control the child by any means possible, so that no one will believe the child--or, as in the case of Elsa Newman, or the case of the Castillo family [<SPAN style="BACKGROUND: yellow">both in Maryland, incidentally; both in the same county in Maryland, incidentally; both under the same judge in the same county in Maryland</SPAN>] no one will believe a mother who tries to speak out for her children. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; BACKGROUND: yellow; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Here is a challenge for you: </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">if you are struggling over the question of whether or not to accept my assessment of Elsa's case--that Elsa is unjustly imprisoned and that her two children are in the clutches of a pedophile parent--then <SPAN style="BACKGROUND: yellow">read about the Castillo's. There is no arguing over that one at all. The mother pled with the judge not to allow the father unsupervised visits, saying he was a threat to the children. The judge disregarded her pleas, allowed the unsupervised visits. And all three Castillo children are dead--drowned in a bathtub by their father, during one of those unsupervised visits.</SPAN></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">OK...back to the question of why the children themselves do not disclose abuse:</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">There are several categories of threats from an abuser&mdash;all designed to keep a child in silence and keep the abuser and his abuse secret. The first may be <U><STRONG>the verbal threat</STRONG>:</U></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;I&rsquo;ll kill you.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;nobody will believe you, because you&rsquo;re a kid and I&rsquo;m and adult.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;I&rsquo;ll give you such a beating that nobody will be able to tell who you are.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;I&rsquo;ll kill your mother.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;well&hellip;you know those drugs I&rsquo;ve been getting for you? You won&rsquo;t be getting any more. You know what &ldquo;cold turkey&rdquo; means?</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell&hellip;like you did before&hellip;and those social workers come out here again, like they did the last time? The same thing will happen all over again. There won&rsquo;t be any evidence&hellip;and I&rsquo;ll beat the shit out of you when they&rsquo;re gone. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell, I&rsquo;ll kill your dog [who may be the only friend the kid has]. And you remember what happened to your other dog&hellip;and your hamster.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell, I&rsquo;ll send you to an orphanage, and you will get nothing but stale bread and water until you grow up. If you go to an orphanage, no one will ever adopt you&mdash;and no one will ever love you. No one ever loves somebody who grows up in an orphanage.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell, everyone will know what you&rsquo;ve been doing to me, and they will know it&rsquo;s your fault, because you are such a bad person.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">If you tell, nobody will believe you, because they know me and they like me&hellip;and they know what a bad person you are.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">There are also the <U><STRONG>implied threats</STRONG></U>. For example, the broken toy syndrome&mdash;one father used to throw children&rsquo;s Christmas presents across the room and break them. No words accompanied this. There was no verbal threat. There was only the implied threat that the mental image left in the child&rsquo;s mind.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Another category is the </SPAN><STRONG><U><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt">demonstrated threat</SPAN></U></STRONG><U><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">.</SPAN></U><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> In a case like this, the abuser might, for example, turn on a stove burner&hellip;hold the child&rsquo;s hand near enough to the burner that the hand hurt&mdash;badly. And then warn the child that telling would result in her/his whole hand being held on the burner.</SPAN><br /><br /><U><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Finally, <STRONG>there is the threat by the enabler</STRONG>&mdash;</SPAN></U><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">the mother or father who knows at some level what the other parent is doing. This person may try to convince the child that what is happening is normal. &ldquo;You just have to put up with it. That is what men are like.&rdquo; This parent may then issue threats of her own, much in the same vein as those issued by the actual abuser.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman','serif'; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt"><FONT size=3>&nbsp;</FONT></SPAN></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[WHAT EVER IS GOING ON IN THE STATE OF MARYLAND?]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/what-ever-is-going-on-in-the-state-of-maryland.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/what-ever-is-going-on-in-the-state-of-maryland.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 14:26:12 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/what-ever-is-going-on-in-the-state-of-maryland.html</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;I have come across a most interesting sto [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span  style=" float: left; z-index: 10; "><a><img src="/uploads/7/1/4/8/714848/2058050.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border: 1px solid black; z-index: 10;" /></a></span><p  style=" text-align: left; display: block; "><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">&nbsp;</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">I have come across a most interesting story&mdash;one that in many ways seems to parallel the Elsa Newman case. The man&mdash;both husband and father--involved in the second case is one Mark A. Castillo. For the sake of the privacy of Elsa's sons, we'll make do without a name for their father.</SPAN><br /><br /> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the Castillo case, the authorities did not believe the mother. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the authorities would not believe the mother. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the Castillo case, the separation and divorce were ugly. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the divorce had turned ugly. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In both cases the children were quite young. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">The Castillo&rsquo;s had three children. Elsa and her husband had two. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the case of the Castillos, the husband and father seemed to be a pleasant person, easy to get along with, who&nbsp;seemed to love&nbsp;his children. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the husband and father was quite charismatic and seemed to love his children. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the Castillo case, Mark Castillo talked to the mother about how he could most hurt her. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the father seemed to be&mdash;and still seems to be&mdash;looking for ways to hurt his ex-wife.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the Castillo case, the mother desperately wanted custody, believing that her children would be harmed by their father. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the mother desperately wanted custody, believing that her children were being abused by their father, both sexually and otherwise. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the case of the Castillos, the authorities chose to believe the husband. In the case of Elsa Newman, the authorities chose to believe the husband. </SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">In the Castillo case, Mark Castillo was allowed unsupervised visits with his children. In Elsa&rsquo;s case, the father was allowed unsupervised visits with his children&mdash;visits the children begged not to have to make.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">Elsa&rsquo;s ex-husband charmed the authorities and found the perfect way to hurt her. He gained custody of the boys. He testified against her&mdash;charming the jury and the media, so, partly as a result of his efforts,&nbsp;she ended up in prison. He limits, to every extent he can, their contacts with her. When he was required to take them to see their mother, he would say things like, &ldquo;Well&hellip;let&rsquo;s go. I have to take you to see your &lsquo;bad mom.&rsquo;&rdquo; Or &ldquo;Here&rsquo;s a letter from your &ldquo;terrible mother.&rdquo; For twenty years, Elsa Newman will live her life in prison&mdash;where her children are nothing but an occasional letter, email or phone call&mdash;strictly monitored by the children&rsquo;s father. And she will live out those years, knowing that because nobody would believe her, her children are now in the hands of a pedophile custodial parent, knowing every day of her imprisonment that it could have been different, if only someone would have believed her.</SPAN><br /><br /><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Comic Sans MS'">Mark A. Castillo also found the perfect way to hurt his children&rsquo;s mother: He drowned <STRONG style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">them</STRONG> in a bathtub. That&rsquo;s right. All three of them. All dead. He admits it. Now Amy Castillo, because no one would believe her, will live out her life in a different kind of prison&mdash;where her children are nothing but memories, knowing every day of her life that it could have been different, if only someone would have believed her.</SPAN><br /></p><hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[First Post!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/first-post.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/first-post.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 00:11:34 +0700</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://rachelweepingforherchildren.weebly.com/2/post/2008/05/first-post.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Start blogging by creating a new post. You can edit or delete me by clicking under the comments. 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